Having a twins with my BF. I am scared?
Boyfriend an I are having twins?
My boyfriend and I just found out yesterday we are having twins. We are 16 years old. I know we shouldn’t be having kids. But we are good parents our other 2 kids are happy and healthy. We are living with my parents my younger sisters. We have taken parenting classes. The one instructor comes to our house once and a while to see how we are doing. She can’t believe how well we are doing. Our oldest child is 3 years old. She is a sweetie. We just had a baby 2 months and 26 days ago
I work part time he works full time. We both go to school but right now we have tutors coming to our house. So we can stay home. His parents are supportive they love him and me and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I. We have to pay for our children. His parents help a little. That helps. To be honest being a mom has made me a better person. I know that I made mistakes. At least My boyfriend is taking care of our kids and me. we have insurance for our kids and me and we feed them. I am nervous and I am happy about having twins. I love being a mom. I know we can afford another it. We don’t waste money. Every month my bank account is always positive. My boyfriend loves being a dad I love being a mom. Our kids are healthy. We put our kids needs first. Please no rude comments we are taking care of my kids they are happy and healthy. To be honest we are happier now. We love being parents. Yes we are young. We are waiting a long time before we have sex again.
Were we work they threw us a baby shower for our last child. We got clothes, diapers, bottles, rags, a diaper bag, bibs, towels, and blankets stuff like that. I had to get strollers, cribs, nursery furniture and furnishings stuff like that. Car seat. They always do the same thing.
I am nervous and scared my boyfriend is nervous and scared. He is on paid leave at his job. He got injured at work. They are going pay me while he is on leave. He still get a paycheck every week. I don’t know when he will be back at work. 1-3 plus months,
I am scared that my bf might leave me one day? He is the greatest guy ever. Any advice?
What should I know about having twins?
any advice to make us less nervous?
Are we crazy for keeping our kids?
What is life like with twins?
What stuff should I get now to be prepared for twins?
Hiya
Im 16 and 20 week’s pregnant with my first child
I am having the same worries as you…. my boyfriend is a really nice guy to but im scared about him leaving me.
My mood’s have been very bad during this pregnancy im always shouting at him for the littlest reason’s
My Boyfriend is a twin his mum always tell’s us stories about when him and his brother were born that they cried when they were apart she used to have to lie them next to each other on the floor all the time other wise they would cry… they have bin in the womb together for 9 month so they will feel different without each other good luck wright back x
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Troll. Theres no way in hell you have that many kids. If you do, then you seriously don’t know how to keep your legs shut.
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i recall this exact same question being on here yesterday… word for word at that..
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you’re crazy.
i’m 21…single..and having twins.
its overwhelming
but i’m excited.
but your still crazy.
ps…the pregnancy with twins SUCKS. i’m so ready for this to be over.
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You are a troll. I’ve seen this question 3 times today and in the first question you presented yourself as a guy with a pregnant 16 year old girlfriend. Get a life.
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Wow. I’m 17 and pregnant with my first. I really can’t say anything about this because i’m pregnant myself. Just wow. Are you serious? gees. You would think after the first you would have gotten on BC or something.
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"His parents are supportive they love him and me and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I"
"My boyfriend loves being a dad I love being a mom"
So… are you the boyfriend or the girlfriend?
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The above question.
good for you taking that good care of your kids and still going to school! but now that you are having twins, plus 2 other kids, you should get your tues tied, he should get a vasectomy, or you should stop having sex. but if you live near me and need a babysitter, I’ll babysit!
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This is the third time I have seen this question. It is also written similar to the way your "boyfriend" writes. This is probably made up, is it entertaining you? It is boring me.
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"His parents are supportive they love him and me and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I." Are you the boyfriend or the girlfriend?
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Get a life and grow up!
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Mother of two!!!
I really, really, really hope you are joking with us. If not, then sweetie please do consider adoption, maybe there is someone you know. You are doing ok now, but trust me, you won’t when you double the amount of children and your others will pay the price. I don’t know how you could be preg with twins when you have a 3 month old. How could you get preg that soon and be far enough along to get an ultrasound? Think about adoption, get on some good birth control (look into Mirena IUD, it is very good if you have had kids already), continue going to school and taking good care of your kids you already have.
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You screwed your story up. You say you are having twins with your boyfriend and then proceed to say that his parents only "support my girlfriend and I".
Silly Troll, Y!A isn’t for kids.
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Hmmm, I smell a rat. Reading through this, you say "My boyfriend" and "my girlfriend"
"My boyfriend and I just found out yesterday we are having twins"
"But they only finically support my girlfriend and I."
16 with two kids and another two on the way? Yeah right
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If you are telling the truth and this situation is real, then sorry honey but that’s nuts and your parents need KICKED!!! You are scared your boyfriend will leave you?? You should be. Most relationships starting that young, don’t last, even with kids. I have many friends that had kids that young (not that damn many though). I don’t know what to tell you about being nervous, because you deserve it all for putting yourself in this situation. You evidentally know how and what makes kids, and you didn’t do what it takes to protect that from happening. I don’t think your crazy for keeping your kids unless you cannot take care of them. In that case, give them up and quit screwing!! You had sex, and even knowing what you get out of it, you continued. You should have to raise your children and not get out of it. You play and you pay. You put this question on here, and then ask for no rude comments…honey, you are going to get them. Think about it. I understand you are stressin, but you should know there are people who are going to say stuff you may not like. If i were you, i’d sure quit having sex, or at least get on birth control. Good Luck with Life….it’s going to be a hard one.
I didn’t read all the other responses first, and I hadn’t seen this question before. I didn’t catch the little quirks in it until I read the responses and went back and read it. Get a life!! Don’t you have better things to do. I don’t even think you know if you are a boy or a girl, so get over it…I am reporting this.
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Definite troll.
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Intuition
Hiya
Im 16 and 20 week’s pregnant with my first child
I am having the same worries as you…. my boyfriend is a really nice guy to but im scared about him leaving me.
My mood’s have been very bad during this pregnancy im always shouting at him for the littlest reason’s
My Boyfriend is a twin his mum always tell’s us stories about when him and his brother were born that they cried when they were apart she used to have to lie them next to each other on the floor all the time other wise they would cry… they have bin in the womb together for 9 month so they will feel different without each other good luck wright back x
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You were the boyfriend yesterday…
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