Why is it not seen as child abuse to bring a sick baby in the World?
i get very worried and mad whenever i hear about woman who undergo fertility treatments or have insemination when they know they have passed the phase where they could have had a healthy baby. i don’t know where this trend came from, all these celebrities that are almost 40 having baby’s and twins. meanwhile almost all these children are sick. most have heart problems, others have some mental disabilities, hormone problems, growth problems, but most have heart problems. and it’s not like we don’t know like 20 years ago. we know that even if u take hormones or have Ur own egg inseminated, the child will have problems. most of these babies stay months is the cofeuse, and a lot don’t make it. I can not understand why a mother would want a child so bad even when she knows ( cause most pp know ok what the chances are of difficulties or an unhealthy child) why would u choose to bring that child to life, does every mother not dream of a healthy baby, do u not want the best for ur child. and this is a situation where u urself choose to bring that fetus to life, its something u do urself. to me this is very selfish and it not about the child its not about wanting a child to love, it’s about u, it’s about u wanting to say hey i can still have a baby, or wanting a certain life style for ur own benefit when u let the change for this lifestyle pas u by. cause most of these woman are woman that choose a certain lifestyle that did not allow them to have a child. and know this past lifestyle will influence their child, meaning, alcohol, smoking, drugs, pills ect. so to me woman in this situation willingly bringing an unhealthy child to life, a child that will have problems as he/she grows and if she wants a child or her own someday. I see this as child abuse and i wonder why nobody else.
there are so many children in this world that need a home, if u really want a child so bad what does it matter if u gave birth to it or not, or is it that u just want to give birth?
I have seen sick children, i have seen children that now are my age and have problems because there mother took hormones when she was already 35+ and i know a six year old girl that has had 2 heart transplants, kidney problems, cant go to school cant play and has to be around an oxygen tank all the time, just because her parents decided to have her when they were 45 and 60. ( and no it did not happen naturally) every i look at this woman i feel disgusted. Am i
the only one? ofcourse there are healty woman that need some extra hormones or vitamins but that is not what i am talking about here i am talking about cases where it is already known that there will be complications.
pls dont change the subject i am not talking about pp that get complications during pregnancy i know there are so many things that can go wrong that we dont have power over, i am not talking about abortion here. i am talking about pp talking this riks before there is a fetus like X said paying so much money and no it not your decicions cause this is not your life this is an other person a life that is not yours that what i am talking pp do not realize that your child is not just ur child its another person with a life of its own. and i write about it because i see it everyday and have 2 deal with it.
I think it is very easy to judge someone when you don’t understand their position. You know what you would do but that doesn’t make it the best choice for everyone. Women discuss these decisions with their doctors, husbands, families and themselves before taking a big risk - yes it’s a risk but for them it is worth it. I’m still young and I wouldn’t choose to have a child late in life but I’m not going to sit around writing a 3 paragraph discussion on how wrong they are for not doing what I do. Birth defects, miscarriage, and pregnancy complications happen at any age and a woman who wants her own child and pays 12 grand for IVF should be allowed to make that choice.
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The fact of the matter is that people are selfish. They simply don’t give a damn about the young life that they are bringing into the world and i bet the celebrities have minders to watch their children most of the time and just use them as fashion accessories when out and about and when the press are near.
The best way to get your opinions heard is to start an awareness campaign, get signatures from friends and neighbours and send them off to government so hopefully a new legislation will be put in place to stop this kind of thing.
Your not the only one who feels so strongly, i feel disgusted by it too!!
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I’m not sure I’m getting your point but I’ll try to answer.
I’m 24 and mostly healthy, I’ll admit I’ve had my share of health complications but none have effected this pregnancy [except pre-eclampsia which any pregnant woman can get] and I was asked if I wanted a down syndrome test. I had the option of finding out whether my baby would have problems or not, but the test isn’t done until you’re around 20 weeks.. by then the baby is already moving and in 4 weeks can live outside the womb. Was I going to terminate my pregnancy because I found out my baby had a chance of being not 100% healthy? No because that would have been wrong of me to take my baby’s life because of a health condition. It’s not child abuse either giving a person a chance at life.
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I think it is very easy to judge someone when you don’t understand their position. You know what you would do but that doesn’t make it the best choice for everyone. Women discuss these decisions with their doctors, husbands, families and themselves before taking a big risk - yes it’s a risk but for them it is worth it. I’m still young and I wouldn’t choose to have a child late in life but I’m not going to sit around writing a 3 paragraph discussion on how wrong they are for not doing what I do. Birth defects, miscarriage, and pregnancy complications happen at any age and a woman who wants her own child and pays 12 grand for IVF should be allowed to make that choice.
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In actuality, most of those children are NOT sick they are perfectly healthy. Yes, the risk of complications and defects goes up after age thirty-five but there’s still a higher chance of a healthy baby than an unhealthy one. There are parents who are in their twenties who have children with Down Syndrome and heart problems and other disabilites… are they selfish because they couldn’t tell the future? No, and neither are parents who need help conceiving. Sure there are lots of children who need homes but the facts are that adoptions are unstable and difficult and usually much more expensive than fertility treatments. Many countries have strict limitations on the type of person who is allowed to adopt from that area… China comes to mind, who until recent years refused adoption to parents younger than thirty-five… you will still have a parent of the same age and it’s very likely they will adopt a child with health problems, same situation.
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Could you be more ignorant on this subject?
#1. Celebs didn’t start this so called "trend".
#2.How many of these babies do you actually know? probably none.You are probably getting your info from some gossip site.
#3.Not all or even many of these kids are sick.You are once again, minsinformed.
#4. It’s not child abuse for the same fact that a 20 year old getting pregnant is not child abuse.ANYTIME you have a kid, there IS a risk of your child having an abnormality whether you are young or old..healthy or sick.
#5. Not everyone is cut out to adopt.When you adopt, you welcome a set of challenges into your life.Foster kids take a lot of energy because they have past issues with their lives.
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